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The most wonderful time of the year is fast approaching, and while it can be exciting and full of holiday cheer, it can also be stressful. The stress of the season is real, and the pressure to host the perfect holiday gathering while also attempting to attend all of the holiday commitments can leave anyone feeling overwhelmed. In this article, we will provide tips on staying sane during the festive season and genuinely having a great time with your family and friends. 

Planning Ahead

While we all have the best intentions during this busy time of year, getting ready for the holiday season can sometimes bring out the not-so-nice side of us. It is a busy season, especially for moms, and a stressful time.

The never-ending to-do list, ordering Christmas cards, shopping for Christmas gifts, and trying to attend multiple family gatherings are tricky to stay on top of. It may feel like a full-time job, but with some planning, it won’t feel like it. Here are some ways to plan ahead and help keep you in the holiday spirit. 

Even with all the added to-dos that come with the holiday season, you still have to feed your family. This is the time of year to pull out the crockpot and plan meals ahead of time. Prepare your meals in advance, make a menu, and triple-check your grocery list. Order a pickup if you feel overwhelmed grocery shopping, especially if you must bring your little one to the grocery store. Or, if you have the budget and are short on time, do a grocery delivery. Buy in bulk and make large meals that you can freeze in proportionate servings for ease of thawing out when you need. 

Another good planning tip is to create a gift list of family members, closest friends, and other important people you plan on gifting. Try to make this list several months in advance so that next time you’re out shopping and see something you think someone on your list will like, purchase it. Not only will this make Christmas shopping so much easier as you head towards the end of the year, but it is also a great way to lessen the financial burden by spreading out purchases vs. doing them all within during November and December. 

Manage Expectations

The next step to staying sane is setting realistic expectations. We all have that picture-perfect idea of what Christmas should be like. However, when has there ever been a perfect holiday or family gathering? Do not put too much pressure on yourself to find the right gift. It’s okay if you don’t have the time to bake cookies or attend all the popular holiday activities.

Unrealistic expectations will only add to the stress and fuel those holiday blues. And try not to put too many expectations on your partner. It’s ok to take it one day at a time and eliminate some of those to-dos that won’t be missed. Focus on creating memories and making a meaningful connection with your loved ones. 

Set Boundaries 

If certain friends or family members tend to cause stress, set boundaries. Focus on your immediate family and make new traditions. It’s ok to avoid those people who bring you down or raise your stress level. Learn to say no and don’t overbook when possible. It’s up to you how much time you want to spend attending parties or festivals. You do not have to participate in every event; this includes all those Holiday plays, shows, and children’s activities. You can throw out the social calendars and stick to your own personal obligations. 

Self-Care

Self-care should be a priority during the holidays. Get enough sleep, eat healthy snacks, and exercise. Take breaks during those busy times, and find some quiet time to take deep breaths. Even just taking some alone time in your bedroom for an hour is a form of self-care.

Enjoy those winter months, sit outside, and have a glass of wine in the fresh air. Sleep, exercise, and hydration are the key to good physical health. The last thing you’ll want to do is get so worn down that your immune system becomes weak, and you end up sick by Christmas Eve. Also, mental illness is a serious thing, so if you do feel you have a mental health issue, don’t hesitate to seek professional help.

Ask for Help and Delegate

When it comes to anything in life, work or pleasure, there are times when we need to ask for help. The holiday season is some of the busiest months of the year. You don’t have to accomplish every task and cook every dish. Make wrapping presents a family affair. Turn your Christmas dinner into a potluck so you only have to focus on the main dish. Or why not order catering? There is no shame in that.

Create a new normal by assigning holiday to-dos to everyone in the family. If you host a holiday party yearly, ask a friend or family member to help you co-host. The holidays do not need to be a difficult time. You’d be surprised that a lot of people are happy to help; all you have to do is ask. 

Enjoy the Present

One of the best ways to minimize holiday stress is to focus on the present. You don’t need to worry about last year or next year. You have worked hard and come a long way to get here. It’s time to have as much fun as possible, create new family traditions, and be a part of the celebration.

Volunteer the whole family to help at a local charity. Donate food to your local shelter. You can do so many feel-good things to help keep you present. And don’t compare yourself to others; avoid going down social media rabbit holes. Distractions surround us; the most thoughtful gift we can give our friends and loved ones is the gift of presence. Turn off the phones, pull out a board game, and enjoy spending quality time with your family. 

The holiday season is a magical time of year. Colorful lights, holiday music, and sweet scents fill the air. It is the time to enjoy the holiday tradition passed down over the years. But with all of the to-dos, shopping, wrapping, and hosting or attending events, the magic of Christmas can often get lost. Try to focus less on materialistic things or trying to have the perfect Christmas. Look for the silver linings of those lasting memories. Happy Holidays and cheers to a New Year.

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